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Rob/Ayla
| ✔ likes ✔ |
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| parkour legacy (roblox) |
| trackmania |
| making/listening to music |
| drawing |
| friends..................... ⬇ |
this carrd is meant for more in depth info
!BEFORE YOU FRIEND!
before you friend me.. please know that i have very likely adhd (undiagnosed) and suspected signs of autism.. this is an on going diagnosis as of right now, please understand I need space more often than not. i can be dry when upset and even seem rude without me really knowing it. Because of past experiences and how my brain works, I sometimes get overwhelmed by long or emotionally intense conversations. Even just seeing someone type for a long time can trigger a strong physical/emotional reaction not fear exactly, just a deep discomfort I can’t always control...
!DO NOT INTERACT IF!
dont be racist, homophobic, anything harmful in general.. just sho shodont interact if you cant meet my needs and respect them
!TRIGGERS!sudden loud sounds/flickering lightscrowded places/any kind of social interactionspiders.. any kind of crawing beings.. yuckgetting told what to do suddenlyreally sudden changes in planssudden venting without any real warning
!BOUNDARIES!
I’m not available for venting or emotional unloading. (unless I say its okay, and reasoning to this is in "before you friend")I do not handle heavy topics well, even if I seem calm.Please don’t expect long or fast replies.If I don’t respond, it’s not personal. I’m just drained.I’m managing my own mental health constantly.
!EXTRA!Due to heavy masking for most of my life, I may not react much to triggers with only slight signs like freezing, spacing out, going silent, looking/sounding distressed, needing to move or stay still more than usual… even sounding drunk/ foggy... These small reactions can really understate how intense it feels inside, which often makes it seem like I’m more “fine” than I actually am. If you're unsure, signs that something has had a big impact on me include sudden drained energy, going quiet, hiding, acting “off” or upset, shutting down more than usual, or even suddenly leaving or going home.
